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Lesbian? Not quite, say psychiatrists

KOLKATA: School counsellors and psychiatrists are alarmed at the sudden increase in same sex relationships among schoolgirls. Earlier, these mind doctors would get an occasional case where parents hesitatingly came with the "queer" girl, but today girls in such relationships are walking in with their partners to seek help on their own.
Mind doctors do not wish to typify such bonding among schoolgirls within the lesbian frame just yet. They say from experience that girls often get into deep bonding with the same sex because at that young stage, it is difficult to get close to members of the opposite sex, considering the traditional social conditioning that binds us. The excitement of their sexual awakening, coupled with biological changes happening inside their bodies need to be channelized, say psychiatrists. In many cases, this happens in girlie bonding with sparks of physical closeness and should not be confused with sex just yet, feel counsellors.

Sexual Addiction

The term "sexual addiction" is used to describe the behavior of a person who has an unusually intense sex drive or an obsession with sex. Sex and the thought of sex tend to dominate the sex addict's thinking, making it difficult to work or engage in healthy personal relationships.
Sex addicts engage in distorted thinking, often rationalizing and justifying their behavior and blaming others for problems. They generally deny they have a problem and make excuses for their actions.
Sexual addiction also is associated with risk-taking. A person with a sex addiction engages in various forms of sexual activity, despite the potential for negative and/or dangerous consequences. In addition to damaging the addict's relationships and interfering with his or her work and social life, a sexual addiction also puts the person at risk for emotional and physical injury.

Behaviors associated with sexual addiction include:

• Compulsive masturbation (self-stimulation)



• Multiple affairs (extra-marital affairs)



• Multiple or anonymous sexual partners and/or one-night stands



• Consistent use of pornography



• Unsafe sex



• Phone or computer sex (cybersex)



• Prostitution or use of prostitutes



• Exhibitionism



• Obsessive dating through personal ads



• Voyeurism (watching others) and/or stalking



• Sexual harassment



• Molestation/rape

Generally, a person with a sex addiction gains little satisfaction from the sexual activity and forms no emotional bond with his or her sex partners. In addition, the problem of sex addiction often leads to feelings of guilt and shame. A sex addict also feels a lack of control over the behavior, despite negative consequences (financial, health, social, and emotional).


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