Monday, November 19, 2012

Student Stress Starts Early. The Problem: Premature Pressure by Parents, Peers

Student Stress Starts Early. The Problem: Premature Pressure by Parents, Peers

Call it pressure. Call it great expectations. Whatever its name the result is the same: school stress.
It starts as soon as kindergarten. It turns play into competitive sport. It turns the joy of learning into a struggle to excel. It turns friends into social connections and charitable acts into a line on a resume.

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Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Dr.Tirthankar Dasgupta will be unavailable from 20th - 30th octobor2012.

Dr.Tirthankar Dasgupta & psychological counselor Rituparna Dasgupta will be unavailable from 20th - 30th octobor2012.

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Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Today is the 20th annual World Mental Health Day. This year the theme is "Depression: A Global Crisis."

Today is the 20th annual World Mental Health Day. This year the theme is "Depression: A Global Crisis."

What are the different types of depression?
There are basically four types of depression –
  1. Clinical or Major depression
  2. Bipolar or Manic-depressive disorder
  3. Postpartum depression (depression after delivery of child)
  4. Seasonal affective disorder (It usually doesn’t affect people who live in tropical climates like India.)
Clinical and bipolar depressions have two milder phases called dysthymia and cyclothymia, respectively which has similar symptoms but on a milder level and usually lasts longer. Some of the common symptoms of major depression include – despair and loneliness, unwillingness to do the simplest tasks, low energy levels, recurring nightmares and sleep disorders, loss of libido and appetite. These symptoms usually last for over two months.
Bipolar disorder on the other hand is a cyclical disorder characterised by two phases – a manic phase and a depressive phase. In the manic phase, the patient is likely to suffer from delusions of grandeur, excessive self-confidence, feeling of euphoria and higher sexual drive while the depressive phase is very similar to the aforementioned symptoms of major depression.
Causes of depression
What causes depression? Researchers still haven’t zeroed on what causes depression per se but various conditions are usually present in the sufferers. Trauma, grief, work issues, love and relationship troubles and genetic pre-disposition all have a causal link to depression. Some other factors include alcohol consumption, lack of exercise, obesity and pregnancies.
But a cure is not hard to find…
Mental illness is a big problem in our culture, in fact any culture. People don’t like to acknowledge that they aren’t a fully functioning member of society (whatever that means) and there’s a tendency to hush up mental illnesses. It’s almost considered taboo to visit a counsellor or psychiatrist to seek help. Perhaps it has something to do with the way mental illnesses show distinct changes in our personality, cognition and behaviour – the very things that define our being; unlike a physical illness where a certain organ or part of the body is affected. First and foremost, it’s very important to seek professional help
Seek professional help
You wouldn’t try to self-medicate or refuse to believe you have a problem if you suffered from a heart disease would you? The same goes for the mind. Denial – self or otherwise – simply compounds the problem. The fact is that unlike other diseases which are either untreatable or whose treatment costs are expensive depression has an economic and cost-effective solution. It’s imperative to get professional help and there’s absolutely nothing to be ashamed of in visiting a therapist or counsellor.
Physical exercise
There has been ample research to prove that physical exercise of all form helps keep the blues away. One of the reasons for this is the feel-good hormones like endorphins and testosterone are released during exercise which makes us feel good. Even walking for 15-30 minutes can make a difference.
Healthy balanced diet
A health, all around balanced diet is another way to keep depression at bay. For example, omega 3 fatty acids found in fish and vegetable oils play helps keep a part by helping regulate neurotransmitters like serotonin which is used in anti-depressants. Foods high on antioxidants (green tea, broccoli, oranges, spinach, pumpkin, papaya) are also a must.
Relaxation techniques
Another great way to beat depression is by relaxing. This can include anything you like to do like a walk in the park, meditation, taking up a hobby or even listening to music. It’s necessary get away from the daily grind of life.
Get proper sleep
Although lack of sleep alone can’t cause depression it is one of the causes. So it’s imperative to get some shut-eye. Make a daily routine for bedtime if you’ve to. Abstain from nicotine, alcohol or caffeine in the evening.
Share with your loved ones or support groups
One of the most effective non-medicated treatments for depression is sharing with your loved ones. However, this might not be possible for some people and this is where support groups come in handy. Not only do you get to share your feelings but you get to do it with a person who’s been through the exact same problems and knows how to deal with it.
And lastly believe…
The human spirit is insurmountable and depression is like any other hurdle which can be overcome. There is no magic pill to get rid of it; even antidepressants can work that far. In fact, the USFDA found that inert placebos have a significantly high effect meaning that believing you’re taking antidepressants seems to do the trick. So perhaps the answer lies in believing. Raise awareness this Mental Health Day. Don’t let the black cloud win.

Monday, September 10, 2012

Planning Family, Planning a life: case studies


Neha Mathur had been married to Gautam Mathur for eight years. In these eight years of married life, the couple has had two children. They are aged five and two years. Problems arose when Neha conceived her third child only within a year of giving birth to her two year old. The general health of Neha saw a marked deterioration. She was not in the physical condition that was healthy enough for childbirth. On the other hand, the financial condition of the family was in no way enough to support three children at the time. As a result of the difficult times, tension arose between the family members and it was directly affecting the health of Neha as well as the mental conditions of the children in the house. Gautam had too much load at work and this problem only added to his stress. The only solution that seemed possible in this situation was that of an abortion. However, abortion is a process that requires skilled surgery and also counseling is important. Clearly, the couple had not made any family planning.
Summary of Neha’s condition before treatment
Neha had lost a lot weight in an unhealthy way and her physical condition was weak. She was not being able to communicate with her husband as they were having tension in the relation. The alienation of Neha was acting as an agent of manic depression, which was not only harmful for her health and her children, but also for her unborn child. Apart from that, being a mother in an Indian culture, she was not completely ready for an abortion and she was also scared of the whole process. Therefore, it can be said that Neha Mathur was wrecked emotionally as well as physically. It could have been avoided with proper family planning.
The stage of Neha’s treatment: before surgery
Neha Mathur needed psychological counseling before she could be ready for the surgical abortion. It was important that she felt courageous and grew a strong heart so that she could withstand the strain of a surgery. Therefore, the first step of Neha’s treatment included several sessions of counseling that opened her up emotionally. She was made ready by empathetic interactions for aborting her child. The counselor managed to convince her that aborting the child was the best option for bringing back the stability in her life. The session was important for Neha to free herself from the stigmatized mentality imposed upon her by the society. It was only after her depression was mended completely that the doctors brought her to the operation theatre.
Treatment: post surgery:
The treatment was not over after the surgery. This segment was the most important part of the treatment. The segment not only needed Neha but also required Gautam to participate. In this segment, the couple was educated about family planning. They were given a full and detailed lecture in the availability and the functionality of the different modes of contraceptives. This was important so that they do not have to face such situations again. Family planning is the key to healthy living of a family.

Neha’s final condition:
At the end of the treatment, Neha was healed as far as her depression was concerned. She was a confident woman and now she knew how to take care of herself. Her health was medically perfect and it was only a matter of time before she regained her physical strength again. As you know a proper family plan is a must. 

Disclaimer:  This is a scripted document based on the actual problems prevailing in the medical spheres. The characters referred here are fictitious but the problems and symptoms discussed and remedies suggested are based on real life experiences. 

Dr TIRTHANKAR  DASGUPTA
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Mrs.X a  housewife - repeated hanswashing ,repititive thoughts - treated at one of my clinic  in kolkata with SSRI(an antidepressant group),she is not having any comorbid hypothyroidism or other metabolic problems ,not taking other medicines,she was initially scared to take medicines,finally convinced on noticing improvement - now after 3 months doing lot better,she is being motivated ,now to take the medicine for more than 18 month.

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Friday, August 31, 2012

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Monday, July 30, 2012

What are the most common psychological disorders people face today?


 Anxiety disorders are, by far, the most common psychological disorder. There are 6 major types of anxiety and research has determined that 15-19% of individuals have experienced clinical levels in at least one anxiety category.

These types include Generalized Anxiety Disorder (characterized by six months of excessive worry/anxiety, muscle tension, sleep problems, fatigue, and autonomic restrictors such as image avoidance), Social Anxiety Disorder (the most common form with about 13/3% of the population experiencing symptoms at some point. It is marked fear of social/performance situations, such as going to crowded places, peeing in public, etc), Panic Disorder (a condition in which individuals experience multiple uncued or (the attack is uncontrolled by the patient and often unknown when they may have one ) panic attacks and worry about these attacks for over one month), Type I Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (characterized by obsessions that cause anxiety and compulsions used to alleviate it), specific phobias, and post-traumatic stress disorder.
Depression disorders are also, by far one of the most common, if not the most common psychological disorders.
Depression and Anxiety can also, be a dual diagnosis. Meaning you can have both at the same time.

Friday, July 13, 2012

Pre-Marriage Counselling - key of successful married life

What is pre-marriage counselling?
It is a kind of psychological counselling that assures that a couple enjoys a healthy marriage. The couple is asked various questions based on different topics. But most of the couples do not pay heed to it and simply get married. The consequences thus faced are unavoidable and painful.

Why pre-marriage counselling is required?
  • It enables you to have a peaceful married life
  • Helps you avoid trivial clashes
  • Helps you achieve better understanding
  • Enables you to learn about the expectations of your spouse
These are only few of the reasons as to why you need a pre-marriage counselling. There are various other reasons or benefits as we can call that will force you to go for a pre-marriage counselling.
Various marriage counselling agencies are there to render their services. Basic things are discussed by a marriage counsellor in order to make the couple understand the problems that can become an obstacle in the future.

What are the things that a counsellor discusses?
  • They tell you the possible issues that can crop up into conflicts
  • They tell you the ways to get over with the petty issues
  • They tell you the ways in which they can keep their spouse happy
  • They tell you the ways in which better understanding can be nurtured among the two
  • Also, assistance is offered on various other aspects like sexual issues, children issues, religion difference etc.
Thus our write up must have offered you concrete reasons of visiting a pre-marriage counsellor. So, visit a pre-marriage counsellor in order to avail important information and suggestions needed for a successful married life.



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Friday, June 15, 2012

Get counseling before retirement..call moner alo 9051503332

Retirement is an inevitable activity in the lives of workers. All workers must retire at
one time or the other in their lives. Unfortunately, the thought of retirement to some
workers breeds anxiety, apprehension and disillusionment attitude towards retirement
needs not be this negative, counsellors and other helping professionals need to address
this recurring and debilitating problem. This paper thus examines the nature,
sources, causes and effects of pre-retirement anxiety and recommends Rational-
Emotive Behaviour and Reality therapies as strategies for managing pre-retirement
anxiety among workers.
Psychological effects of pre-retirement anxiety:
i. anxiety level unknown previously become very high as from 55 years of age;
ii. there is increased incidence of stress because of stressful feelings;
iii. emotional balance is difficult to achieve;
iv. there are feelings of nostalgia;
v. depression is common;
vi. incidence of cardiovascular disease is seen occasionally; and
vii. future plans are uncertain.

Thursday, June 7, 2012

If you or someone you know is considering suicide and are unsure how to deal with it,please call 9051503332 -, to get help.

If you or someone you know is considering suicide and are unsure how to deal with it,please call  9051503332 -, to get help.

Suicidal thoughts are troubling, especially when accompanied by depression, other mental illnesses, alcohol or substance abuse, or plans for suicide. This situation demands immediate evaluation. These thoughts may indicate the presence of a serious psychological disorder.

The critical distinction is between a person's thoughts regarding death and suicide and actually feeling suicidal. When doctors hear that someone wants to die, they refer to these thoughts as suicidal ideation and divide them into two categories.
  • Suicidal ideation can be active and involve a current desire and plan to die.


  • Suicidal ideation can be passive, involving a desire to die but without a plan to bring about one's death.
If a person has an actual desire to die (in either form of suicidal ideation), he or she must seek immediate medical attention.

Saturday, June 2, 2012

7 Relationship Problems and How to Solve Them



7 most popular relationship problem are:

Relationship Problem: Communication

Relationship Problem: Sex

Relationship Problem: Struggles Over Home Chore

Relationship Problem:Money

Relationship Problem: Conflict

Relationship Problem: Not Prioritizing Your Relationship

Relationship Problem: Trust

 

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Wednesday, February 22, 2012

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Thursday, February 16, 2012

Lesbian? Not quite, say psychiatrists

KOLKATA: School counsellors and psychiatrists are alarmed at the sudden increase in same sex relationships among schoolgirls. Earlier, these mind doctors would get an occasional case where parents hesitatingly came with the "queer" girl, but today girls in such relationships are walking in with their partners to seek help on their own.
Mind doctors do not wish to typify such bonding among schoolgirls within the lesbian frame just yet. They say from experience that girls often get into deep bonding with the same sex because at that young stage, it is difficult to get close to members of the opposite sex, considering the traditional social conditioning that binds us. The excitement of their sexual awakening, coupled with biological changes happening inside their bodies need to be channelized, say psychiatrists. In many cases, this happens in girlie bonding with sparks of physical closeness and should not be confused with sex just yet, feel counsellors.

Monday, January 23, 2012

Sexual Addiction

The term "sexual addiction" is used to describe the behavior of a person who has an unusually intense sex drive or an obsession with sex. Sex and the thought of sex tend to dominate the sex addict's thinking, making it difficult to work or engage in healthy personal relationships.
Sex addicts engage in distorted thinking, often rationalizing and justifying their behavior and blaming others for problems. They generally deny they have a problem and make excuses for their actions.
Sexual addiction also is associated with risk-taking. A person with a sex addiction engages in various forms of sexual activity, despite the potential for negative and/or dangerous consequences. In addition to damaging the addict's relationships and interfering with his or her work and social life, a sexual addiction also puts the person at risk for emotional and physical injury.

Behaviors associated with sexual addiction include:

  • Compulsive masturbation (self-stimulation)


  • Multiple affairs (extra-marital affairs)


  • Multiple or anonymous sexual partners and/or one-night stands


  • Consistent use of pornography


  • Unsafe sex


  • Phone or computer sex (cybersex)


  • Prostitution or use of prostitutes


  • Exhibitionism


  • Obsessive dating through personal ads


  • Voyeurism (watching others) and/or stalking


  • Sexual harassment


  • Molestation/rape
Generally, a person with a sex addiction gains little satisfaction from the sexual activity and forms no emotional bond with his or her sex partners. In addition, the problem of sex addiction often leads to feelings of guilt and shame. A sex addict also feels a lack of control over the behavior, despite negative consequences (financial, health, social, and emotional).


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